Did you always assume that success came right from innate talent or ability? Think of someone who wasn't labeled brilliant or talented, but are highly successful. How did they do it?
Do you have the mindset of a champion? Do you do your best when things are going for you or against you? How can you use a growth mindset to raise your game when it counts most?
Have you closed yourself off to certain relationships because you expect perfection - total alignment in every way? Think about the people you know who would be wonderful additions to your life in spite of their imperfections?